Hey Myron Monday: "The Fire is Gone"
Hey Myron, I don't think I love my wife anymore!! Now
don't get me wrong, I do care for her a great deal, but the truth is the
"fire" is gone. You see when we first met I couldn't keep my hands
off of her. She had me so gone Myron. I'm talking baby was BAD! Shaped like a
Coke bottle, ass like a Georgia peach and her hair was always on
point. But after we said "I do" she just let herself go.
I've
asked her on several occasion to "spice it up/ switch it up" but her
response is "we're married." Well Myron, I've recently found myself
thinking and dreaming about other women especially one co- worker. Myron this
chick is the truth (36-24-36). She's single, no kids and has the prettiest lips
I've ever seen. Look, if my wife doesn't shape up I'm shipping out! Help a
brother out!
Hey Ready to Bounce, don’t
say you don’t love her anymore, because you know that’s not true. You do SO love her. You’re
just in a slump right now and the fire has dissipated a little bit. Every
marriage suffers “lulls” every now and then. It’s easy to get caught up in the
everyday routine of everyday life. And by the time it’s get down to the two of
you, all of the energy has been used for other things. But you have to fight
for this.
You
said you’ve asking HER to spice it up, but what are you really asking her to
do? Does she know? Have you given her any ideas?
True,
things may need to be spiced up a bit. However, someone has to be the one to
take charge and make things happen. Why not you? Don’t wait on her! Take the
lead! You got to be that one to bring that fire back in your marriage!
Now,
as for this lady on your job…really bro?
You
think she looks fine and all, but she could come with a set of issues of her
own. Everybody has their own issues. But right now, you know exactly what you
have at home. And although you’re interested in this lady, you didn’t even say
that this woman was interested in you. But, you’re ready to throw away your
marriage for her? Right now it looks like this chick is just a guess and a
fantasy. This is not really making any sense to me.
Before
you make a bad move, here is my advice. Come back down to earth! Shift your
focus back to your wife. Do things to encourage her to spice it up. Get her up
and out of the house! Really make a conscious effort to get the fire back!
Yall
go somewhere you’ve never been and do something you’ve never done! Sometimes,
you have to get out of your normal environment and focus on each other while
leaving the stressful aspects of your life behind. This will do wonders. Try
it, youll be surprised!